Most of us, from our earliest childhood days, were taught that failing is a really bad
thing. The successful people in life are always playing to win. You went out of
business, you are a failure. I know this to be very true for me.The failures
in my life have added so much richness to my life. Life becomes fun! You
are no longer one who sits on the sidelines. You didn't get the job, you
are a failure. I have learned so much and it makes the wins that much
sweeter. Is there anything holding you back from achieving your big dream? Is there any
past conditioning that you need to let go in order to succeed? What beliefs nike requin do
you hold about winning and losing that might be preventing you to take that big
step forward?When you jump to the side of playing to win, life is exhilarating! You
feel so good and you are so happy and proud of yourself. If you look
at people who achieved extreme greatness in our world, almost all of them had some
major failings in their life. Most people go through life playing not to lose rather
than playing to win. Playing to not lose is being afraid to fail.A perfect example
of playing not to lose can often be seen in sports. As if it was
written in the stars, the team that was down all of sudden garners nike pas cher some offensive
life and the next thing you know they make the winning score. Playing not to
lose is about playing it safe. One of the teams has a stellar offensive performance
for almost the entire game. How do we get the mind-set of playing to win?
We often have to let go of past conditioning. All my previous failures taught me
some valuable lessons about succeeding in business. For me, failure is taking a step backwards
in order to have the momentum to make that giant leap forward.Whatever you are trying
to achieve in your life, it is worth doing a self-assessment to see if you
are playing to win or playing not to lose. It is defense rather than offense.
However, not wanting to lose, they change their game plan to a defensive one with
only a few minutes left in the game. It happens over and over again.Our society
is so conditioned that failure is bad. Playing to win is a choice. If you
ask them where they had the most growth in their life, they will always say
it was from their failures. You grow and expand and you eventually achieve all those
experiences you have been craving to experience. It took me six business attempts to finally
succeed in business. Playing to win is a mind-set. You didn't win the game, you
are a failure. You become the powerful creator of your life!More @ PatMcCleary.com.
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